Rabbi Eve Posen

There are Jewish populations in every corner of the globe. As Rabbi Larry Milder tunefully teaches, “wherever you go, there’s always someone Jewish.” But the question we have to ask ourselves is how do we keep Judaism from becoming diluted when its people are so spread out?

This week we read Parshat Re’eh, deep in the heart of the book of D’varim.  This section of Torah is rich with commentaries on daily living and guidance for how to act.  The multilayered parshahbegins with a warning about rewards and punishments with blessings and curses and then moves on to focus on a central place of worship that is appropriate for the Israelites.  The text also warns us of false prophets, guides us in our eating practices, teaches us how to take care of one another and explains how to celebrate the Shalosh Regalim, the three pilgrimage festivals of Pesach, Shavuot and Sukkot. 

The overarching theme of the parshah appears to be establishing both a way of life and a connection to one another.  Concerned about the spreading out of the Israelites and the influence the other nations might have on their culture, God instructs them in chapter 12 saying, “Do not worship the Lord your God in like manner, but look only to the site that the Lord your God will choose amidst all your tribes as his habitation to establish his name there.”

The Torah recognizes that the Israelites are living in a world with other religions and that these religions might have an influence over the ways that the Israelites worship.  The other nations had altars and ritual grounds scattered throughout the country; wherever they needed a place to connect with their god, they set up an altar.  In a certain sense, we see this happening with the Israelites throughout the Torah too.  Altars are set up along the route in sefer Bereshit as God’s presence is made known throughout the journey.  But now, God wants there to be one unified location for sacrifice to God. 

The timing of this moment makes sense.  It could only happen after the Israelites arrived in their own land.  As they journeyed through the desert, they were one people in one location, but as they settle in their land, the people will spread far and wide, and the unity felt at that moment might never again be reached.  God’s commandment is religious insurance that at least three times a year (Shalosh Regalim), the people will come together. 

When they occupied one region, this sounded like a reasonable plan.  But what happens when the Israelites are exiled? Or when they start to live too far away to make the journey?  And how far is too far from the one place that Adonai has chosen?  Ancient rabbis shared their thoughts: perhaps “too far” meant outside the Temple court or a journey of more than three days.  But maybe a question more appropriate for us today is how can we stay connected?  In our time, it isn’t so much the place that matters, but connectivity and relationships. 

Today’s society has become more and more connected. We’ve gone from “leave a message after the beep” to being able to instantly reach people through a dozen different methods. Now we can text, tweet, email, call a mobile phone and more. In fact, we’re finding it increasingly more difficult to go “out of range” where technology will not work and someone would actually need to leave a message.

There are several lessons to learn here.  Like the Israelites who knew their compact, united community was about to spread and were given a central location to connect with God and each other, we still need to make our physical places count.  Now that families can be separated by oceans and still Skype face to face, taking the time to actually be in the same location where we can make physical contact is more important than ever. On the other hand, without the possibility of a Jewish religion reunion (even if we could find a hotel big enough, the catering would be crazy), we have to find ways to reconnect with God and our traditions. Whatever the Makom – the place – may be, our challenge is to make the place count. Staying connected to people has become easier and easier. May we strive to make the same enthusiastic effort to “like,” “follow,” and spend some much needed FaceTime with our beautiful tradition.

ללמוד  To Learn: ללמד  To Teach: our families are often spread over the globe.  Search your family tree, see where you have relatives.  If you find that your roots were in a country that speaks a new language, learn to say “Hello” in that language.  

לשמור  To Keep:  לעשות  To Do: Start once with a day without technology, Shabbat or another day.  Use that day as one to reconnect with the people you live with, in person.

“All you need is love.”  The popular Beatles song posits that all you need is love, and if you are loved you will learn how to be yourself and save others as you make your way through life.  In a certain sense, it’s true; without love it is difficult to move forward, to blossom and grow into a successful, active and productive member of society. 

This week’s parshah, Eikev, teaches this principle in a different light.  The text maintains “And if you do obey these rules and observe them carefully, the Lord your God will maintain faithfully for you the covenant that he made on oath with your fathers: He will love you and bless you…”  It seems simple at the outset: all you need is love, and so if you follow the mitzvot and the path that God has set before you, you will receive this love, and from this love will come abundance of land, crops, blessing and more for your family.  Over and over again in the parshah, we’re reminded that the Israelites’ relationship with God is not based on fear of punishment or hope of reward, but rather on the fundamental idea that we follow the mitzvot because God loves us, and we take pride in doing something for the one that we love.  

While this section of texts continues with different references to the history of the Israelites and even contains in it the second paragraph of the Shema, it also focuses on this idea of need.  While it is a lofty and romantic idea that we can live through love alone, we also know that we have higher order necessities in life.  One of these necessities is food, but the text teaches in chapter 8, verse 3 that “He [God] subjected you to the hardship of hunger and then gave you manna to eat, which neither you nor your fathers had ever known, in order to teach you that man does not live on bread alone, but that man may live on anything that the Lord decrees.” 

While love is an emotional need, human beings all require physical sustenance in order to survive.  This text is teaching us that perhaps there is more to our physical order, but that our spiritual, emotional and physical needs must all be in sync for us to maintain a life of blessing.  We see the Israelites constantly complaining to Moshe and to God about their lack of food and water, and in their cries, the astute reader notices that they are also emotionally malnourished.  They cry out because they remember a time in Egypt where it didn’t seem too bad.  They have a need for stability and for trust.  They are a people that came out from a situation where love was lacking and faith was dwindling.  The text in Parshat Eikev reminds us that we cannot live on the physical alone, and it is our spiritual appetite that pushes us to search for a deeper meaning in our daily lives.

The text also gives us a formula for ensuring that we take note of the moments when our appetite for love, food, learning or other cravings are satiated.  In chapter eight, verse ten the text teaches:

י וְאָכַלְתָּ וְשָׂבָעְתָּ וּבֵרַכְתָּ אֶת ה אֱ לֹהֶיךָ עַל הָאָרֶץ הַטֹּבָה אֲשֶׁר נָתַן לָךְ:

“And when you have eaten and you are satisfied, and you blessed God, your God for the good of the land which He has given you.”

This verse is the basis for Birkat HaMazon, the blessing after meals, because it teaches that after we have satiated our hunger for good, it is necessary to thank God.  Being able to thank God here requires faith in the land that God has created, faith that the rain will come and the land will continue to produce crops.  We are constantly reminding our young ones to remember their “please” and “thank you,” and the Torah does the same for all of us.  While food sustains our physical needs, it is the blessings of abundance, of thanksgiving and of faith that move us through life.

ללמוד  To Learn: ללמד  To Teach: Visit our website www.levineacademy.org to learn how to reciteBirkat HaMazon, the blessing after a meal. Practice makes perfect.  Continue working on your please and thank yous.  We learn through modeling, this week make an extra effort to thank those who help you.  The notion of blessing is a lofty one.  Try this week to say thank you as a family for the nourishment you receive in the form of food, shelter and love. 

לשמור  To Keep:  לעשות  To Do:  visit a local food pantry and make a delivery of needed supplies so that others can partake of the Mitzvah to bless and thank God for sustenance. 

I’ve had a lot of time to think about the impact of a birthday on Tisha B’av.  Today is not only the day where we contemplate the darkness in the world, whether it is the destruction of the Temple or the explusion from Spain, or England, or the stock market down turn, or even the baseless hatred that seems to be ever prevalent in our society.  It is also the day on the Jewish Calendar that 4 years ago I buried my grandfather and little did I know spend one of the last days with my father alive.  And, as I’m always reminded, it is the yahrtzeit of my great grandfather.  As one who tends to remember dates and see commonalities in life events, this all brings me to think about the torn feeling between the darkness of the day and wanting so badly to celebrate my birthday.  

And if this were my 30th birthday, I’m not sure I could find a happy ground.

But, this is 29, and this is just another day.  As the darkness of the world might feel overwhelming at times, the lights last night by which we read Eicha and the lights on my cake after sundown are a welcome source of light into my next year.  

And yes, I am missing my breakfast in bed, and the free food and treats at local restaurants, but those are a luxury.  This birthday I am reminded of the children around the world who spend every birthday without a special treat or a cake.  I am feeling blessed with the friends and family who are here to celebrate with me, with knowing that i know where my next meal will come from, for the blessing of my job and the community that I live in, and knowing that no matter how dark the world feels today, tomorrow is always a new day.